By filling up your self-love gas-tank, so you are happy and have more love to give...that's how.
Yup! I mean...how else does One expand, right? :D
(you eat more, you get bigger...you love yourself more, you have more love to give! same banana)
(you eat more, you get bigger...you love yourself more, you have more love to give! same banana)
I engaged in a lot of self-care/self-love this past moon...
I went to the salon, on dates (the Skype & chai type), checked off stuff from my wishlist from LAST YEAR, went to a Yoga class, etc...
Now I know the things I mentioned are probably pretty normal occurrences for some...but I'm a working co-parent (versus single mom) that lives with her daughter in their own apartment, with no yaya/maid, ok?
Not that I am complaining...I LOVE our life!!! But sometimes scheduling in things like going to the salon or getting a massage can get complicated...
Now I know the things I mentioned are probably pretty normal occurrences for some...but I'm a working co-parent (versus single mom) that lives with her daughter in their own apartment, with no yaya/maid, ok?
Not that I am complaining...I LOVE our life!!! But sometimes scheduling in things like going to the salon or getting a massage can get complicated...
Things got even more interesting when Little A left for Papi-land, and even more so when I took a break from work!
You'd think I would pull my hair out not knowing what to do with all that free time...I almost did. :) But I busied myself with work (before I actually went on vaca)...and then when I finally took a much needed respite...I busied myself with my Work in the World. <3
First things first...go to a gig. :D
I didn't even make it to the bar though. (hahaha!) Half a beer in as I walked down the boardwalk, I was already woozy and decided against going alá 24/7-hardcore-party days. Instead, I just sat by the water's edge, listened to the same old cover band, and when I was done with my drink...hit it home. Definitely not what I imagined my live-music-night would look like...but, very fulfilling all the same.
Next, catch up with homework time.
Aside from being a full-time working momma with no nana, I also have this thing for continuing education (currently enrolled in a Sacred Business program, a Conscious Parenting course, plus all other required reading for Yoga, etc etc).
Suddenly having 2 daughters (+ co-parent) around for a week was fun, but it completely changed the daily routine for a week!
So...a little bit of hustle was in order...but, I was still easy on myself. Performance-level was ideal, but no pressure to be perfect. This is how you ace the University of Life.
Lastly, increase oxytocin levels through self-pampering + girl-bonding moments.
So...a little bit of hustle was in order...but, I was still easy on myself. Performance-level was ideal, but no pressure to be perfect. This is how you ace the University of Life.
Lastly, increase oxytocin levels through self-pampering + girl-bonding moments.
I cannot stress enough how VERY IMPORTANT this is!
Oxytocin is a feel-good hormone in both males and females, and basically it is what your body secretes when you have bonding moments with friends/family, or even with just yourself. (Wiki will tell you more)
I am over-the-moon thankful for my girl-time last month...but giving myself the time + space + resources to tend to just me was so very healing!
Some days I did nothing, other days I sweat it out; some nights I had ice-cream for dinner, a couple of times I bought stuff I wanted (without necessarily needing it)...but whatever my Heart desired at that point - I gave it to myself...and I am so So SO soOOo grateful that I could!!!
I am counting the days till Anantita comes back...first because I miss her so, but also because I know days like these won't last forever.
I am over-the-moon thankful for my girl-time last month...but giving myself the time + space + resources to tend to just me was so very healing!
Some days I did nothing, other days I sweat it out; some nights I had ice-cream for dinner, a couple of times I bought stuff I wanted (without necessarily needing it)...but whatever my Heart desired at that point - I gave it to myself...and I am so So SO soOOo grateful that I could!!!
I am counting the days till Anantita comes back...first because I miss her so, but also because I know days like these won't last forever.
I hope every mom (dad, and non-parents too) gets to have at least of semblance of what I've been living for the past 21 days...even if it's just by taking a 30-minute hot shower, a 5-minute massage, a long, full breath...
May all beings be happy...may all beings be loved...may all beings be free.
~ Namaste ~
Thirteenth Moon: COSMIC MOON OF PRESENCE
(June 27-July 24)
Totem animal: Turtle
1. Share
your expansive thoughts
2. Spread the Love by pampering yourself
first – get a rad new do,
look great and feel even better :)
3. Be there for a special someone’s big moment – Kuya’s prepa graduation!!!
4. Tell the world what you’re
proud of – posted pics of grad night w/ new look on FB
5. Approach old wounds with
reverence, and learn/re-learn the lessons from that experience (NO
SHAME/DISDAIN)
6. Now is The Moment of power
7. REMINDER: Tat Tvam Asi (You
are That)
8. Ask, and you shall receive
9. Value your alone time
10. Even if it hurt a bit, be
grateful you’ve reclaimed your Time & Space
11. Catch up with a SSS (Super
Soul Sister) – Skype date with Tala
12. Keep on upping oxytocin
levels – chai latte date with a Momma Goddess
13. (just because doors were
closed right at your nose)…don’t get snotty…get creative! :)
14. Discharge gracefully…or not
:S
15. Be, with Family - E + Citlali arrive <3
16. Do every little thing from
the Heart (THAT is service)
17. Let Love in <3
18. Breathe…Respond…Re-create
19. Be who you were born to be
– cumple-kin (red planetary skywalker day)
20. To receive Love &
Support, love and support
21. Relish Family time – little
A left for Gto with E + Lali
22. Know what makes you ~ turn
on ~ tune in ~ drop out ~ (and engage it)
23. Sleep like a baby on its
birthday
24. Fill up the well before
sharing the water – before you give, you must receive
25. Re-connect, circle in
26. Make time for Momma Goddess
bonding moments…it opens your Heart to the flow – chai latte date with S…afterwards,
saw an abandoned/almost lifeless kitty and brought it home :)
27. Indulge your desires – hot stone
massage from 2012 wishlist…check! (finally!!!)
28. Exert an extra effort to be
of Service – 2 Yoga classes in 1 day = sore ass + legs (yey me)
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